Anonymous asked: I miss being friends with you....what changed? . We used to be the best of friends and now its like u barly even acknowledge me anymore

Well, considering this was sent to me anonymously… I can’t be completely sure. But I’m sorry things aren’t the same anymore. It can honestly be awful growing apart from people, although we can’t always stop it from happening. Schedules change, interests differ… That’s life.

I wouldn’t be able to tell you what changed, I could easily say I’ve grown up, but although I have, it’s kind of a bullshit excuse. Honestly, I think I just have gotten to know myself a lot better and I went through some periods of time where I kept people around me who treated me and made me feel like shit, and at this point, (corny as it surely sounds) I’m just trying my best to surround myself with people who enjoy my company, and vice versa. People that make me happy. I’m just trying to focus on my interests and passions and fill each moment doing what I want to do and such.

Again, I don’t know who exactly sent this, so none of that isn’t to say that you were a person that treated me badly. Even if you somehow did though, I’m sure I’d be more than willing to overlook any bad blood between us from a while back, talk to me! But People just grow apart sometimes, life is constantly going on. Change is inevitable. 

I’m sincerely sorry if it seems I don’t acknowledge you or if you put some effort into talking to me and it seems to go ignored, I would never do that intentionally. So if you really would like to talk to me, (again I stress,) just come talk to me sometime. 100% serious, just approach me in the hall or something sometime and talk to me. I’m very open to talking with new people.

Anyway, if growing apart was just the case here, then I’m sure a good part of me misses you as well. But please don’t waste your time missing me. I’m absolutely positive you’re lovely and have fantastic friends who are much more worth the time and effort you might use missing me.

And finally, I’m sorry we seemed to have grown apart or for whatever happened between us, dearest anon. I hope maybe this provided some closure of sorts on the chance this message happened to have just been the product of late night nostalgia. Or like I said, if you would like to catch up sometime or have a chat, just come and talk to me sometime. Anytime really. Promise I won’t bite!